Sunday, December 15, 2013

Commodification And The Sale Of Innocence

**Warning: this post contains my opinions, and a rant to go with them. If your family choices are different to ours, please do not hear me judging you. You know what is best for your family, just as I know what is best for mine.**

Every day since the first of December, our family has opened one of our little advent sacks and read the message inside, and have enjoyed completing the Christmassy activity or tasks each day. Yesterday's message read,

There are a lot of movies about Christmas. Today we are going to watch a Christmas movie.

In hindsight, I should have hired a Christmas movie from the video shop. Instead, we checked ahead to see what was showing on free-to-air TV and decided to watch 'The Grinch Who Stole Christmas' on commercial TV. (Also, in hindsight, I really should have picked a movie that I had seen ahead of time. I found The Grinch to be a little too 'old' for our kids.)
Our kids rarely watch TV, and when they do, the only watch ABC2 or DVDs that we have handpicked. We keep them very sheltered from the media, as far as we can, as we believe that there is plenty of time for them to be bombarded with the messages and pressure of the media and modern society, and their innocence and childhoods are a gift to be treasured, protected and nurtured. 

Last night, I watched my girls watch TV. I watched them take in the ads, the suggestions that they should want this product or that, that this object or that one would make them happy. I watched them watch news headlines, and promotion clips for other TV shows.

I wondered why, in a G-rated family movie at a 7pm timeslot, the channel would feel the need to air news headlines about brawls and murders, complete with confronting images. I wondered why they would advertise M-rated TV shows, complete with clips that I feel were definitely not appropriate for children. Why would I want my young children to see that? If I, as a mother, make the choice to allow my children to watch something that has been deemed appropriate for young children, then shouldn't that child-appropriateness naturally extend to the commercial breaks as well?

Unfortunately, a little research told me that my stance is not shared by the governing bodies in charge of monitoring TV advertising standards and viewing safety. Apparently, it is allowable for TV stations to air promotion of M rated material during G or PG programs in an evening timeslot, as long as the promotional material meets the requirements of the G or PG rating. In other words, as long as the ad doesn't show too much, it's ok. A bit of online searching led me to a complaint made to the Australian Communications and Media Authority about an ad for a M rated show that was aired during an evening sporting telecast, which is legally assumed to be PG rated.The ACMA found in favour of the TV station saying that although the
"promotion does contain depictions of sexual behaviour and references to sexual activity... [it] is considered to be restrained, as the sexual activity is implied rather than explicitly depicted [and is] mild in impact."

Which leads me to question, were the images of a young girl involved in a violent brawl in Northbridge this weekend being roughly thrown into the back of a police van considered to be mild in impact? What about the news voice over detailing the discovery of a body in WA bushland, of a man presumed to be murdered? Even the news is a product to be sold these days - news images are chosen carefully for maximum impact as ratings are ruthlessly sought. Shock and sex sells, and our children are not immune to this.

How about the ads for fast food and alcohol? Should it not be a shared societal responsibility (media included) to protect our children from obesity, poor health and the normalisation of alcohol consumption? What about (and I fear I may not have as many supporters here) the messages that come through in product advertisement? The idea that Christmas is about getting lots of presents, that we should always want more? Or the ad that depicts two men competing with each other over who has the 'best' and 'biggest' camping gear?

Last night's foray into commercial 'family' TV reaffirmed for me the choice we have made to embrace a simpler, more mindful and definitely less commercial Christmas - or, indeed, any other time of the year.


  1. You are absolutely right! We shut off television 40 years ago -100% - and raised our children reading books. lots of books, although they too should be screened, as more and more they can contain explicit material unsuitable at certain ages . Even though our children are all grown we still do not watch television. People ask how I get so much done - as I quilt, knit, crochet for charity, run a full time shop and have an online business. I tell them I don't have TV and I get the strangest look - like I'm not quite real. And media hype has never influenced our Christmas buying - we do a homemade gift for each family - food baskets prefered - that's it!

    1. I so agree, Patty! I get so much done with the TV off! And Christmas is so much nicer without the influence of media. Have a lovely Christmas.

  2. Yes! We have also had this experience. Television does not take young children into account at all. We barely watch tv and also choose the non-commercial stations (which our federal govt. now want to commercialise) because I am horrified at the violence, lack of respect for follow humans and the blatant greed that is accepted as normal in so many households. What must this do to the psyche of young people who are still forming their personalities, opinions and view of the world?! Quite scary really!

    1. Sadly, Linda, I think TV DOES take children into account. Children are very susceptible to marketing, and believing everything they are told. They have no filters. I had no idea the govt is wanting to commercialise ABC! How sad!

  3. We don't have a tv and our kids are also very sheltered on what they watch and when. ABC iView means we have got ABC for available but even some of those programs I don't find wonderful. As for adult tv, we can easily hire a film if we want to watch something or download it from iTunes.
    The few times my kids have seen commercial tv in the last 12 months since we banned the box has been a very interesting experience from my perspective. they have sat there, GLUED to the screen, absorbing all sorts of information, very little of it positive or affirming of our lifestyle choices. It was scary really.
    I too like to vet fils before the kids see them. Totally with you in all ways on this one.

    1. It's scary, isn't it? In my 'real life' I am quite alone in this (and many other things), it's nice to 'chat' with people who don't think I am strange! Have a great Christmas, Jessie!


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